Socialization Fears Worries
WHAT ABOUT SOCIALIZATION?!?! It is, for some reason, the very first question that everyone has. Since we are being honest, despite knowing and believing all of the things that I do… It is still one of my biggest concerns, deepest fears, and often worry. I know that school is not socialization. I know that being confined in a room with 20 other people who live like you, who come from where you do, who are your age, and who have a similar family structure is not socialization that prepares you for the big wide world. The “socialization” that my homeschoolers receive prepares them for their role in society and does not limit them to the social norms of a classroom.
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Hey there, welcome back to Making Everyday Magic! I’m Shanna, and if you’re new here, I’m excited to have you join our homeschooling journey. As a family of four, we’ve been homeschooling for seven years now โ a choice we made before it became a widespread trend. Today, let’s dive into a topic that often sparks questions and concerns: homeschool socialization.
Dispelling the Myth of Public School Socialization:
Before we delve into the depths of homeschool socialization, let’s address a common misconception โ that public school inherently provides superior socialization opportunities. However, the reality is quite different. Public schools often segregate children based on neighborhood, socioeconomic status, and other factors, which doesn’t mirror the diverse interactions of society. Socialization is not confined to schools; rather, it extends to real-life experiences.
Our Personal Journey with Socialization:
I want to be honest with you โ I still have moments of doubt about whether my children are getting enough socialization. Despite engaging in numerous extracurricular activities and events, the concern lingers. But here’s the truth: it’s entirely normal to have these worries. It’s a sign that you care deeply about your children’s growth and development.
Creating a Homeschool Socialization Network:
Feeling alone in your homeschool socialization journey? You’re not. Many of us face the same challenges. In fact, the burden of creating socialization opportunities often falls more heavily on homeschooling families. If you can’t find the community you’re looking for, consider creating it. It might involve some extra effort, but the rewards are worth it.
Ideas for Building Homeschool Socialization:
- Join Online Homeschool Groups: Connect with like-minded parents through online platforms to share ideas, resources, and organize local meetups.
- Local Libraries: Collaborate with your local library to host educational and interactive events that bring homeschooling families together.
- Nature Walks and Exploration: Organize regular nature walks or hikes, encouraging kids to connect with each other and nature.
- Craft and Hobby Classes: Partner with local businesses to host workshops, such as sewing or crafting classes, fostering friendships while learning new skills.
- Museum and Zoo Visits: Plan outings to museums, zoos, and other educational places where kids can learn, interact, and have fun together.
- Play Dates and Playgroups: Initiate playdates with fellow homeschoolers or create playgroups centered around shared interests.
- Volunteer Opportunities: Engage in community service together, teaching kids the value of giving back while bonding with peers.
The True Essence of Homeschool Socialization:
Socialization isn’t just about spending time with peers in a classroom setting. It’s about developing meaningful connections, communication skills, and the ability to thrive in various environments. Homeschooled children can learn to interact with people of all ages, not just their peers, which provides a more holistic form of socialization. We work to socialize our children for the world, not for a classroom.
Conclusion:
In the end, remember that homeschooling socialization is a journey filled with ups and downs. It’s okay to have doubts and fears, but it’s also crucial to take action. If the right socialization opportunities don’t exist, create them. Remember, you’re not alone on this path, and your commitment to your children’s growth is what truly matters. So, let’s build a strong homeschool socialization network together and watch our kids flourish in the vibrant tapestry of real-life interactions. Feel free to share your thoughts, worries, and ideas in the comments below or connect with us on Instagram at Making Everyday Magic.
